Tuesday, November 20, 2007

All I Want For Christmas is my...MUSTACHE!

That's right. This year, we're all taking a vacation from ourselves and growing our mustaches. All the male teachers at school start the staches on December 1st. It's going to be amazing! I'll post pics!

On Christmas Day, we'll all gather with sweaters, presents, egg-nog and MUSTACHES!!!

It'll be quite the sight. Here's to the stache!!!

First Snow...

Last night we had our first snow of the season! Of course, it's not as fun as waiting to watch the Snowbird report to see if school is closed, but it still gives us that youthful feeling of fun and innocence. It was a heavy snow, but when we woke up it was mostly ice and sludge.

It's nice though and made us realize what a great time of the year it is!!!

Monday, November 19, 2007

No chance...

As winter closes in on Korea again (it's 16 degrees today), I felt it necessary to buy a real winter coat. I knew what I wanted, so 고 and I went out to a shopping district of Seoul and looked.

I saw some that I liked and many, many more that I was embarrassed to try on, but did only because of the over-the-top cajoling from the salesmen. I would try one on and they would say how great I looked in it, but when I saw myself in a mirror I had a different opinion.

After a couple hours, we gave up and now, I do not have a decent coat and it's cold outside!!!


Wednesday, November 07, 2007

Wedding Tease...

Last Sunday, 고, her mom and I all went to check out the place where we want to have the wedding. I loved it. We reserved it today and it's official! I'm so excited!

The place is called Korea House. It's in the middle of Seoul with tall buildings rising in the background, but the wedding site seems like it is from centuries ago. The whole ceremony is quite interesting and just what we wanted.

Here are some shots...









Here's how it works. Traditionally, the wedding took place at the bride's house, but not anymore. First part of the wedding is the "Presentation of Wild Geese". The geese symbolize harmonious love between the bride and groom. During the procession, the best man holds a single wooden wild goose. He then hands it to the groom after a series of bows. Here's a below average picture of that.



From here I walk to the brides "house" and place the goose on a table. After bowing twice to my future mother-in-law, she takes the goose inside the house.




Then the bride comes out. This is my favorite part. The bride is wearing some very traditonal clothes. I can't wait to see 고 in it. She's going to look stunning!
She's under there I promise!



After she walks out, then we can finally see each other. Our hands are washed, which of course symbolizes cleanliness. We bow to each other twice and then kneel down facing each other.



Then we drink special rice wine from separate half gourds. The two gourds together make us whole. Then we join together and bow three times to our parents, ancenstors and guests.

Look at her outfit! It's amazing! Notice the dots on her face!



It's going to be amazing!!!! See you there?!!

I'm so excited to be taking part in this very special aspect of Korean culture. Not many Koreans do this anymore and even fewer foreigners get the chance! I can't wait.

I could only find one song that fit and it doesn't even fit that well. Enjoy!

Honeymoon...

Now that the wedding date is set for May 4th, 2008, it's time to start planning, among many things, the honeymoon.

Luckily, we are already in Asia which has perfect honeymoon destinations, but I thought some input might be fun. Just suggest a place without any consideration of money. Of course, that is a HUGE consideration, but if you exclude something because of that and it turns out that the island or country right next it is affordable, then we would be missing out.

Here's something to inspire...



And no, Kokomo is not an option, but what song could be better?

Tuesday, November 06, 2007

Damn gym guy...

You know, I go to the gym as much as possible these days. I like it. However, on Tuesdays and Thursdays I go on my lunch break and every time there is this guy that only works out his "lats" and I want to use that damn machine too. The guy's shoulders are huge and the rest of his body is tiny, so why doesn't he do anything else? Every time I'm on a machine or lifting something, I'm keeping a watchful eye on him and hoping to time it just right so I can swoop in a steal the machine. This might sounds immature, but a confrontation would be silly and neither one of us would understand beyond a series a points and nods.

Today I was all geared up for it. He went to get water and I finished my set quickly and walked over. I swear he saw me in the mirror, dropped his water and ran over to that machine. This guy kills me! I'll get him though. I'm going to tie his shoes laces together so he trips and has to watch me use his machine.

That would be great!

Here's to my archenemy at the gym: the "lat" guy!

It's not the original, but the orginal had way too many men in speedos and I figured you had enough with "Relax". This more of a parody. Right up my alley!

My face hurts...

I woke up today feeling like someone had punched me in the face several times before I went to sleep. The left side of my face is so sore. It turns out that I have a pretty intense sinus infectiion. Maybe not, but I'll going to the doctor today, so we'll see.

Luckily, I have been smoke-free for over nine weeks. That's including when I'm drinking, which also has subsided severely. All my friends still go out and stay out until 6am. (Even if they have wives, fiances or girlfriends at home!) I'm just not seeing the point or draw to that anymore. It's fine for them, but I'm happy going home early.

Tuesday is my easy day. I'm hoping to work more next month though. They told me they would try. I do like the free time that I have, but I'd rather be working. Besides, I could work until 6 or 7 and still get home before 고! Poor, 고! She's doing great though. I'll find out her recent project website and post it on here soon!

I have been filling my time with this though...



고 and I love this...

Saturday, November 03, 2007

Relax...

I did nothing all day today and it was great. I ate Subway, watched Arrested Development, worked out and studied Korean all at home and with no plans. 고 had her company hiking trip all day, so I had the day. It was relaxing.

Tonight, we're going bowling. It's been years for me, so I figured it'd be fun.

We went to Ganghwa-do a couple of weeks ago. It was fun. We got to see North Korea. It was nice. Ganghwa Island has a great history that you should check out on wikipedia. Here are some pics...





That's North Korea across the water. It's barren, but beautiful.



This is at the top of Mount Mani.

It was fun and really pretty!

So, here's to my day of relaxation. (The video is a little weird)


Early Mornings

These days I've been waking up so early. 고운 gets up well before seven and, of course, once she is up I can't stay asleep because our apartment is not that big and I'm not going to complain.

It's okay though. I wake up, check out some news and the Fantasy Basketball league that I have joined and then I make her breakfast. Don't get too excited. All I do is take some lunch from school and heat it up. Lunch for breakfast does not sound great, but in Korea, they typically eat the same thing for every meal. There is some variety, but rice, soup and some meat is usually involved.

I'm up now and it's 7:30am. I woke up early because 고 has a work hiking event at Muido Island in the Yellow Sea. It's about an hour away. She's not looking forward to it too much, but Korean companies require a lot of you.

I played Monopoly last night. It was fun. I played with Micah, Glen and Greg. I won. I usually try to corner the yellows and greens. It works most of the time.

So, Steve Colbert got denied permission to run on the SC Democratic ballot. I'm not surprised though. I don't know if he would have made a good President, but at least it will give him some good material for his show. I like the guy and I know that he would not have been that bad. Plus, he would have been so funny in the debates.





It's so funny! It's classic. I love seeing Colbert pretend to defend his fictious views. Watch Russert try to be serious.

I started thinking about Australia yesterday. I think it would be a neat place to live. Hmmm...

Thursday, November 01, 2007

Halloween is still fun!

We had the task of making a scary haunted house for the students. Last year, we were not as successful, but this time we hard some new ideas. The kids were all terrified and most of the cried through the morning. We even scared the older kids!

The teachers worked hard this year and dressed the part.



Can you find me?

I would put up some pics of crying kids, but I figured that might be a little mean.

It was fun, but the day has past. It's not like the days of walking around in the old neighborhood in Nashville, but it's the most fun I can have as a 25 year old.

Last night we had a little party. Beer, soju and games seem to be the norm. Nothing too wild, but then again I'm not really doing much on the wild side these days.

I've been doing well with the gym these days. I went today in between classes. It was odd. There was no one in the gym. The music was on, the lights were on and the door was open, but no one was there. The employees weren't even there. I worked out for about forty minutes and went on my way. I'm going back tonight with 고 when she gets off. It will be a light one though.

고 is working so hard as well. She's been working at home too! It's so cute! I'm very proud of her dedication to this job!

I gave up on my beard. I tried and it was just not fully connecting the sideburns to the stache and chin. It was close though. I'll try again...maybe.

Here you go, as promised...

Here's to Michael Jackson!

Friday, October 26, 2007

Ice

Yesterday I was playing a game called, "Bum". It sounds a little odd, but it's a fun game. All you do is stand in a circle and kick the soccer ball when it comes to you. The only rule is that you have to make an effort if it's close to you and you must return it so it's playable. I have no soccer skills, but luckily I did play a lot of hackey-sack in high school, so the motion is one that I'm used to. Besides, a three year old could play this game.

Like in "HORSE", if you mess up in "BUM" you get a letter. Once you spell BUM then you must stand against the wall with your back facing the group and brace yourself because the other players are now trying to kick the ball at you or your bum, hence the name of the game.

I play with my British friends and one American friend and, of course, they all love and play soccer. Getting kicked by them is not fun. It's stings a bit. I mean, they can really kick a ball. I can barely make solid contact let alone try to aim at anything. So, I want to avoid getting any letters and therefore avoid getting hit.

Yesterday, we were playing and the ball bounced reasonably close to me. So, I made a valiant effort to kick the ball. I ran and extended my leg as far as it would go. Unfortunatelky, it was too far and now I walk with a very cool urban limp. I'm not sure what I did to my knee, but I'm going to give it a day and see how it heals and then I'll go from there. I did not have to go up on the wall though and I will continue to play BUM.

So, I guess the lesson is don't play any games with Brits. Ha!

Post Script:
I have a workshop tonight. I have to leave the city and stay with ALL the teachers. I'm not too thrilled for a few reasons. One, I have to sleep on the floor. Two, I can't stay up too late anymore and three, I won't be with 고. That's the biggest reason. This will be the first Friday ever and the first night away from her in 6 months. I miss her already, but I'll can always talk to her.

Also, I plan on updating you on 고's job this weekend. For now, she loves it and I'm so proud and happy for her.

So, while I'm icing my leg here's a little something for you...

Wednesday, October 24, 2007

Today I Became a 주부

Only a few of you might know at this point and even fewer check this blog since I have not been active in five months, but 고 started her job today. I will know more about it tonight when she gets home.

However, the inspiration for the post is not her job. No, that will come later, but this is about my new career as a 주부, or housewife. Of course I still work and make good money, but I finish the day so early. I start at 945 and finish at 430. Poor 고 doesn't finish until 7 at the earliest. This leaves me about 3 hours of relaxation, right? Nope!

The task of maintaining a clean and productive household is quite daunting. In fact, I even made a list tonight of all the things I need to do in order to have some down time with 고.

* Dishes
* Sweep and vacuum
* Laundry
* Water the plants
* Cook or plan dinner if possible, but since it's only the first day I might be in over my head
* Water the plants
* Dust
* Straighten up

...and about thirty other things that I was always appreciative that 고 did, but never realized the scope of the task.

So, what am I doing writing this post you ask? Ha! I want to change the style of this blog from the earlier stages of large and in depth observations and experiences, to small and little jabs at my day.

So, I'm a house fiance I guess. I'm fine with that. I can do this stuff and I'm happy to do it so 고 doesn't have to come home to a dirty house and me sitting in the middle of it.

Now to my day...

Work was work as usual. I teach English so there are not many surprises. I am getting a bit puzzled by my school though. They seem to be changing their name, but none of the teachers have really been told why or what we're going to be called. It's odd, but I'm getting used to being left in the dark when it comes to management. Also, I had an open class the other day and, without notice, they inform me that I have another one tomorrow. It'll be fine, but sometimes it would be nice to know what is going on and when.

고 will be home in an hour and then we go eat and then we go to the gym. Our time is severely limited during the weekdays, but that is normal I guess. We've been very lucky that we could spend so much time together during the week and, well, all the time.

Also, I'd like to leave you guys with a video of a song each post. You don't have to watch them, but they always are nice and I'm sure you guys have not heard most of these tunes in awhile.

Here's to 고's new job. She's going to do so well!!!!

Wednesday, July 25, 2007

The Final Countdown

We leave tomorrow morning. I have one more day of work left. I'll miss the kids. I'll miss the teachers. I'll miss Korea.

We're so excited and can't wait to see everyone and relax. Life is great.

Here's a little something...

Wednesday, July 11, 2007

Two Weeks...

I was just looking back and reading my post "One Month Update". Ha! Classic...

So, it's been a year. A fast year. A slow year. A wild year. An unusual year. It's been full of too many nights of singing rooms and binge drinking. Very public urination. Korean beer. Drawing on Dave. Making excuses not to learn Korean. Too many nights of fried pork and soju. Cambodian grass. Thai ladyboys. Woodstock. Beverage Lab. Wild Rhett. Mike's a Jap. Tin is a fag. Joel hates Korea. Han River. Family Mart. "This sucks!". Dirty Pants Aaron. She's Like the Wind. Mr. Shin. Lee. Open class. Yellow Necktie. Carne Station. "Going to the gym". Hofs. Hofs. Hofs. And of course, the highlight, 김고운 !!


Luckily, 고 has helped ween me off the bottle and brought a bit more clarity to my world. I would not be able to truly appreciate that clarity had I not had so many years of smoke filled haze and wild boozing.

Are those nights past me? I think not, but they are limited and never last quite as long as they used to.

So, we have two weeks until America. Soon the question is going to be what will I miss about Korea. Hmmm...

Friday, June 22, 2007

I'm Short...

I have finally come to terms with this. I guess it took walking past numerous Korean teenagers for me to realize the grim truth: I'm short!


Now, I always knew that I was taller than some people. Even in my pre-pubescent days I managed to "tower" over a few of the other unfortunate kids, but now it's a glaring fact that I am simply shorter than most.


고 and I have been discussing my height recently. Anyone who knows me knows that I always claim to be 5'9. I am!!!


Well, today I have learned different. I recall one bleak winter day in college when my friends and I decided that we would measure ourselves. I was sure that my "claimed height" would be affirmed. I was wrong. A different height was discovered that day. It was a height that was not near what I always pretended to be.


I remember when I was younger, the doctor always told me that I was in the tenth percentile for height (and weight). He even said that I would only be 5'8. Mom always blew it off though. She would claim,"My father was over six feet tall." That was the mantra I got used to. I started believing it.

My drivers licence has said I was 5'9 since I was 15. That was a lie and apparently it still is.

So, how tall am I???

Tuesday, June 19, 2007

Do They Ever Work?

While American TV is polluted with reality shows, crime shows and 24 hour garbage like Fox News, Korea is doing their own thing. They have the kind of shows that people imagine when they think of Asian television. Something with the title of "Happy Smile Super Challenge Family Wish Show" or maybe the "Super Terrific Happy Time Hour" comes into mind.

Korea doesn't have these type of shows, however they do have shows staring out-of-work or under-worked actors, actresses, comedians and singers participate in these sometimes funny and oftentimes repetitive and overly simplistic concept shows. One is called 무한도전 ("Infinity Challenge").

무한도전 consists of six males who are always on there and the occasional famous cameo (Thierry Henry, Fedor Emelianenko, Maria Sharapova, and Michelle Wie). Each week these guys do 70 minutes of nothing and people love it. Some absurd challenges range from racing in a foot pedalled swan boat against a motor boat, to appearing live on stage at a public fashion show. It's funny, but the question to me is what the hell do they guys do? This is not work. Even Mr. Bean made a living by being silly and socially awkward in movies and TV, but these guys don't have anything special short of being good sports.

I must admit though, I like it from time to time. The host, 유재석 (Yu Jae-seok), made his television debut in 1991 singing a cover of the song Step by Step by New Kids on the Block.



And here's a little Christmas cheer...




I know you couldn't understand any of that (I couldn't either), but you get the point. I guess I wondering why these shows are so successful in Asia? I know China, Thailand and Japan also sport these kinds of shows. Why? Why are Asian viewers so interested in this? What are these guys going to do for work in three to five years?

In the end, I can kind of understand why they watch this. It's stress free fun. That is something that is not enjoyed by that many in Asia. Between academies, stress from school and fourteen hour work days, stress in all too common. It's a break.

I know this is a non sequitur, but the real question is why do Americans obsess over CSI and Fox News? Do we have nothing better to do than watch this false reality?


I think I trust the people who laugh at silliness more than those who get entertained by crime and lies...

Ha! Sorry for the rant...

P.S. Romney, Guiliani and Thompson can kiss my ass!

Friday, June 15, 2007

Friday Night Wisdom...Teeth


고운 had been experiencing pain for the past couple of weeks. It turned out to be her bottom left wisdom tooth. When we first met, she had noticed that my mouth was small and that I didn't appear to have the same number of teeth that most people have. Ha! I don't actually. I was blessed with a small mouth that only allows 24 teeth. I've gotten eight permanent teeth pulled in my day. Between that and my other dental "opportunities", we can all agree that I'm not a fan of much that goes on at the dentist.



고 and I would tease each other about teeth and I would obviously lose because I only have 24 teeth and she had 31. (She had already had one removed.) I went to work this morning and she had mentioned getting it removed today, but I wasn't sure what she would do. About 30 minutes into the day she called and told me that she was on the subway and on her way to get it out. She was nervous about the shot mostly, but was really not anticipating much besides a simple extraction.



I wished her luck and expected to hear back from her in about twenty minutes or so. Over an hour later I got a text message.



"Just finished. It was surgery."



She was still in high spirits, but I could tell it wasn't that great for her. I remember when I had mine removed I got to go home and be waited on. Poor 고 had to get on a subway and go to an empty apartment. I felt horrible for not being with her. I came home on my break and she told me the story.



The dentist had taken X-Rays and concluded that it would be no problem. That, of course, calmed her down. They gave her the unpleasant shot and started the extraction. They pulled and pulled, but nothing. That tooth would not budge. 고운 heard the tooth cracking and loosening, but nothing. After several failed attempts the dentist was becoming noticeably agitated. He called in four more nurses. Two to help him and the other two to hold 고운 's hands.



The dentist started vocalizing his frustration. He kept trying a scooping method that was just not working and with each failed scoop he verbalized it more and more. Finally, they brought out the drill and started drilling away at her stubborn tooth. Still nothing.



They had to get out the knife, cut back the gums and surgically remove that thing. They never put her to sleep though. She was up through the whole thing! What a brave girl! I'm so proud of her!!



She has been recovering well though. She's far from how bad Kristin was, but she did not have it as easy as me. Here's some of her favorite moments.






Sleeping 고고...





They gave her some weak medication that did not seem to do anything, so she took some Tylenol and seems to be feeling less pain.

The bad part about all of this is that she has an exam tomorrow and this, obviously, has hampered any attempt to get in any beneficial studying. She'll do fine though.

I'll let you know how she's feeling as the weekend progresses...

By the way, it was only 22 dollars...

Some additions...

I've added a few things to the site. On the right, you'll see some videos from youtube.com, some news from my favorite sources and some links to some sites that I like. I'll explain each to you now.

The videos are not actually selected by me. Rather, I entered in catergories that I like and they chose random videos that were related to those. I added Obama, Colbert and one of my favorite bands, Umphreys Mcgee. If you have any categories that I should add, feel free to let me know!

The news is nice as well. Headlines, stories and opinion from cnn, bbc, atimes, nytimes, seoultimes, latimes, npr and theonion are in there. However, today it seems that odd Korean news sources are showing up. Is that the case with you? Let me know so I can fix it.

The link are my favorites! Click on The Yangpa. It's a satirical look at Korean society, news and culture from the viepoint of foreigners. I don't agree with all of it, but it can be so funny. The Onion is a satirical look at all news. It's great as well. Asia Times gives news from all over the world and Asia, but the difference is clear: it is not geared toward Western readers. I love it. Then there is Talk Left which is a liberal blog that I check daily. It's wonderful and full of rich insight. Finally, there is Jambase. That is for the music people.

고 and I are trying to get this thing in shape again because we are going to be using it more and more to let everybody know what's going on with us and our world. I'm also going to try and give you guys more of a taste of everday life in Korea.

Also, poor 고 got her wisdom teeth out today. She was told they were not impacted, but when they began they discovered they were. She had to have surgery. I feel horrible for having to be at work when I should be taking care of her. She's so brave and is going to try and study until this evening. I'll take care of her all night tonight!!!

Thursday, June 14, 2007

Korean Corporate Ladder

Let me start this post with something that is such a common sight here.






This is a video that one of my friends took. Notice the suit and tie. Notice the hai and the nice shoes. And now notice how drunk he is. This guy studied hard his whole life to get a good job. He worked and worked, but that only got him in the door. If he wants to climb the Korean Corporate Ladder, he has to show his face and make a name for himself in front of the boss... with the bottle.

That bottle is a drink that we will be bringing to some of you on our upcoming trip. It is called 소주 or Soju. I have written about many times, but still...




http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Soju



If you have a moment, I challenge you to look back at one of my earlier posts titled,"A Rainy Arrival". At the end of the second to last paragragh I mention seeing a well-dressed drunk man passed out face-down on the street. I had no idea what his story was, but now I can take a guess. He was on his way to being a CEO!!

The system is chaning though. As more women are slowly entering the corporate workforce, this norm will change. Uncle John sent me this article...

June 10, 2007
Corporate Korea Corks the Bottle as Women Rise

By NORIMITSU ONISHI

SEOUL, South Korea — In a time-honored practice in South Korea’s corporate
culture, the 38-year-old manager at an online game company took his 10-person team on twice-weekly after-work drinking bouts. He exhorted his subordinates to drink, including a 29-year-old graphic designer who protested that her limit was two glasses of beer.

“Either you drink or you get it from me tomorrow,” the boss told her one
evening.

She drank, fearing that refusing to do so would hurt her career. But
eventually, unable to take the drinking any longer, she quit and sued.

In May, in the first ruling of its kind, the Seoul High Court said that
forcing a subordinate to drink alcohol was illegal, and it pronounced the manager guilty of a “violation of human dignity.” The court awarded the woman $32,000 in damages for the incidents, which occurred in 2004.

The ruling was as much a testament to women’s growing presence in corporate
life here as a confirmation of changes already under way. As an increasing number of women
have joined companies as professionals in the past half decade, corporate South Korea has struggled to change the country’s thoroughly male-centered corporate culture, starting with alcohol.

An evening out with colleagues here follows a predictable, alcohol-centered
pattern: dinner, usually some grilled pork, washed down with soju, Korea’s national vodkalike drink; then a second round at a beer hall; then whiskey and singing at a “norae bang,” a Korean karaoke club. Exhorted by their bosses to drink, the corporate warriors bond, literally, so that the sight of dark-suited men holding hands, leaning on one another, staggering toward taxis, is part of this city’s nighttime streetscape. The next morning, back at the office, they are ready to fight, with reaffirmed unity, for more markets at home and abroad.

Many professional women manage to avoid much of the drinking by adopting well-known strategies. They slip away while their male colleagues indulge in a second or third round
of drinking. They pour the drinks into potted plants. They rely on male colleagues, called “knights in shining armor,” to take their turns in drinking games.

Companies, too, have begun to respond. Since 2005, Posco, the steel manufacturer, has limited company outings to two hours at its mill in South Korea’s southwest. Employees
can raise a red card if they do not want to drink or a yellow card if they want to go home early. At Woori Bank, one of South Korea’s largest, an alarm rings at 10 p.m. to encourage workers to stop drinking and go home using public transportation, which stops running before midnight.

“My boss used to be all about, ‘Let’s drink till we die!’ ” said Wi Su-jung, a 31-year-old woman
employed at a small shipping company.

Ms. Wi, who was out enjoying the sun in downtown Seoul, said the atmosphere
began changing as more women joined her company in the past couple of years. “The women got together and complained about the drinking and the pressure to drink,” she said. “So things changed last year. Now we sometimes go to musicals or movies instead.

Kim Chil-jong, who was taking a walk on his lunch hour, said he owned a nine-person publishing company. In the last couple of years, he hired two women for the first time.

“We drink less because of their presence,” Mr. Kim, 47, said. “Before, I’d
encourage my workers to drink whenever we went out, but I don’t do that anymore.

Still, at least 90 percent of company outings — called “hoishik,” or coming together to eat — still center on alcohol, according to the Korean Alcohol Research Foundation. The
percentage of women who drink has increased over all as they have joined companies.

Over all, South Koreans consume less alcohol than, say, most Europeans, according to the Organization for Economic Cooperation and Development, a research organization financed by industrialized nations.

But Cho Sung-gie, the alcohol foundation’s research director, estimates that South Koreans rank first in binge drinking: the goal is to drink as much as possible, as quickly as
possible, so that co-workers loosen up.

Companies have awakened to the potential dangers of bingeing: health threats,
decreased productivity and, with more women working, the risk of sexual harassment.

The foundation, though financed largely by the alcohol industry, is considered
the authority on the country’s drinking culture. It runs programs on responsible drinking and
abstinence, and assists companies to organize outings not centered on alcohol. Chang Kih-wung, a manager in the education team, has even joined company outings to the movies.

“Usually, a company decides to do something about drinking after a guest, often a foreigner, visits and makes a comment like, ‘Man, people drink like crazy here!’ ” Mr. Chang said.
“So they’ll invite me for a lecture or organize a single activity — then they forget about it and go back to drinking.

Traditionally, this corporate culture often began at the job interview itself. Asked whether they liked to drink, applicants knew that there was only one correct answer.

“If they said they didn’t drink, we’d think that we couldn’t work closely
together,” said Lee Jai-ho, 40, an engineer at a paper mill that was bought by Norske Skog of Sweden in the late 1990s.

Mr. Lee said he was asked whether he was a good drinker during his job interview in 1992, and he asked the same question of job candidates later. The company’s hard-drinking
culture changed, however, after it changed to foreign ownership.

It is this fear of not being accepted as full members of the team that has led
many women to drink to excess. A 31-year-old lawyer for a telecommunications company, who asked that her name not be used, blacked out during a company outing shortly after she became the first Korean woman to serve as a lawyer in the legal division three years ago. “During my studies, I always competed against men,” she said. “So I didn’t want to lose to men at hoishik.

She drank so much during dinner at a Chinese restaurant that she remembered
nothing past 9 p.m., though the outing lasted until 1 a.m.

However, as more women have joined her division, she said, the emphasis on
alcohol has decreased.

“Before it was always grilled pork with soju followed by mixed drinks,” she
said. “Now, I can suggest that we go to a Thai or Italian restaurant.

Not all men were so flexible, though. In the case of the 29-year-old graphic
designer, when she was interviewed at the 240-employee online game company in 2004, she was also forced to submit to an “alcohol interview,” according to the court ruling. She could drink only two glasses of beer and no soju at all, she said.

Her boss, though, liked to go out with his 10-person marketing team — six men
and four women — at least twice a week until the predawn hours and brooked no excuses.

One time, he told her that if she called upon a “knight in shining armor,” she would have to kiss him. So she drank two glasses of soju. Another time, after she slipped away early, he
called her at home and ordered her to come back. She refused.

At the trial, the boss said he was so intent on having his subordinates bond
that he sometimes used his own money to take them out drinking. He called the woman a weirdo and said of the lawsuit, “I’m the victim.


We all know that laws will not change a thing. The ones who go out and drink with the boss will move up faster than those who chose to go home. They might not be fired, but they will not see much mobility. Time will tell...

I will say though, it is funny to see a couple of old suits stumbling down the street hand in hand three sheets to the wind.

Graduation Time!!

It's time for 고 to be graduated from her University!!! She will be a graduate of 한국 외국어 대학교 or Hankuk University of Foreign Studies. http://www.hufs.ac.kr/eng/index.jsp

I'm so proud of her for her dedication to language and her drive to use it as a vehicle to international business which she also studied. She's actually in exams this week and next, but soon it will all be over and the world will quickly open up to her.






I always love these posed pictures. It reminds me of my Ensworth picture. I was too young to understand at the time, but Uncle John referred to me as a "young Republican." I take great offense to that at this point. I think I've done a pretty good job shaking that insult -I mean title...;)

So, before you start firing questions to 고 about what's next and where does she want to work and so on, just relax... She's got a solid plan.

So, if you want to say congratulations or wish her luck, please feel free to do so under the comments! She worked real hard and is about to feel the freedom that we all felt when it was our time. We're going to have a little party for her next week and we'll post some pictures from that as well.

Dear 고,

Congratulations! I'm so proud of you. I know how hard you have worked and I know you are going to great things for the world. Here's a little thing for you. We listen to it all the time and I know it's "our song" so to say, but why not.



I love you 고고!! 사랑해~!!!